I think men in general enjoy making women fall apart and then mend them and then comfort them. Of course men think because women achieve an orgasm that their needs were met. Julian is trying to break her down to suit his needs ignoring any needs Nora might have. Here Nora thought she was not broken or hollow ,yet Julian is an unpredictable lover and likes sex with both pleasure and pain. Nora craves human Contact because she is lonely and the only human contact Julian provides is sex. I'm not feeling that Julian and Nora have any type of connection.
It's only physical there is no emotion behind it, so I'm having a hard time relating because women usually don't enjoy sex unless they are emotionally attached. Maybe to Nora this is the normal way people respond to sex. Maybe because Nora has never experienced a sexual relationship before that Julian can teach her innocent mind of this as an acceptable means because she has nothing to compare it to. How ironic for Julian to find a girl like Nora who enjoys all the torture devices and spankings. I'm so tired of the phrases referencing Nora to be quiet and be a good girl and accept her punishment. The fact that she is only eighteen and he is twenty-nine is weird.
It's puzzling the way Nora responds to Julian and puzzling why Julian chose Nora. Something is either missing in the writing style or it's the story line. I am not finding any connection with these characters. Each night he pushes her with new objects and fetishes. All men base there theory on is how wet she becomes while using one of the many devices. If a man had to experience any one of those objects he might reconsider using them. Breast clamps, blindfolds, dildos, spankings, whips, hand cuffs, butt plugs, the list is endless. Why is it always the woman's body that has to be tortured. He is only obsessed with her body and what he can do to it. He is not concerned with how she feels emotionally. He provides pleasure as a means of rewarding her for getting her body to respond to his liking.
When he says shh, she becomes quiet, when he says come she comes. Of course don't all men want this from women? Men want complete control over women's bodies and shout out commands making their bodies respond upon his commands. Julian is trying to teach Nora the ways in which he enjoys being pleased. Nora is not being punished, yet Julian does hurt Nora but in a Sexual way that increases his and her pleasure. The author gives you a different type of fear for Nora. Nora is going to make him believe that she is falling in love with him so he will let her go. Julian says he is protecting her from the world. Julian kidnaps Nora because she went out with jake and kissed him. I would not waste your time reading this one when there are better choices available. There are much better choices than this oneĬaptive in the dark is a better written series than this one.
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